Thursday, July 18, 2013

Thoughts





In contrary the way life used to be

Hard to be back in rhythm and melody

Waves are nothing but the strong opponent of human body

Strugglin so hard back and forth just not to go with the flow

Not to be easily swayed by tidal waves always on the go

Enthusiastically dreamin' that somehow life will be easier this time

Oh, what a sneak peek of what had happened way back

Realizin its effect psychologically

It is indeed, in entertaining dark shadows of hatred and pain

That somehow nightmares brought by dark shadows revealin himself within your thoughts

Poisoning your well being

Prayer is the greatest help

when you feel all alone

when you feel no one was dare but you and yourself

at the very least a simple prayer can do a great help

Thinkin and now knowin that the greatest healing and medicine is still kindness, compassion and love

But all of overcoming will be impossible

without the help of God above

Monday, February 18, 2013


All About Love



I do not want a perfect relationship. All I ever wanted was a happy relationship!

It is just so strange that life has really full of surprises, so many choices to make but the reality is beyond our control...

It all started when I got inspired by an old couple when I went in Hongkong and Hainan, China. They an An american couple who stands as my Grandparents when I stayed there for few months. I am watching their every move and every words. They still say sweet words with each other and acted as if their relationship is just new. I just thought that somehow, if it's happening to them, it will happen to me. but not we ever dreamed was a reality. It is well said that in every relationship there are some rough roads, overcoming it is a great challenge and that's true love but when it didn't work, then the realtionship is just a stepping stone for the main one. I do not expect everything to be perfect as those things happened only in fairy tales but at the very least, I want reality, reality of having someone who I can share my life with, someone who will accept me as I am, someone who will be there for me when the world are against me and in return I'll do the same thing, much more than that person expected me to do for him. 

All things is in God's hand. He moves in mysterious ways that no one can define unless you let him do his wondrous works for you.




Sunday, July 1, 2012

God's Comfort and Care

My stomach hurts this morning, I'm not havin LBM, just really a stomach ache. But the pain is like im being poisoned or something or is similar when giving birth. I felt that I want to vomit, so I went to the bathroom. There I almost fainted 3 times in the bathroom and only 2 of my dogs (Georgie and Mocha) witnessed what happened. I tried to hold on to something but my knees are so numb and weak so I fell every time im tryin' to get up. My vision is violet but almost black. I managed to get out of the bathroom by crawling, I tried to stand up again and good thing i was able to hold on to our room's door. I know I will fall down again so I throw myself into the bed. When I managed to reach the bed, I woke jie up and told him the pain I am into and asked for a glass of water, I even asked him to turn the faucet off in the bathroom as I wasn't able to have time to turn it off. The pain is getting worst and worst each minute. I am restless. So like the usual thing I am doing since I was a child, I cried out to God and told him,

"I am really in pain"
"I can't really bear the pain any longer".
"Not now Lord, I haven't accomplished the mission you entrusted me yet". 
"Niquolle still needs me".

Then, I suddenly opened my eyes and didn't realized that I was able to sleep, for how long, I am not sure. But my stomach ache is gone, and the few minutes of sleep as I realized and tries to remember is peaceful, very relaxing, very calm. I cannot describe the feeling. It is a feeling so great! It's like, I'm flying, or the feeling is light, Just really a great feeling! I never felt that kind of feeling my whole life for 27 years. It's like you want to feel that feelin forever and never woke up. I knew it is God presence and took away all the pain, provided me with great comfort. It is God who is really omnipotent, omniscient and omnipresent. If I can only share the great feelin I've experienced in God's arms, I know you will tell me the same thing. I know it is one way of tellin me to have time to rest, cause I know I'm a workaholic freak! If not working for my clients the whole day, I am doing household chores. I am thinking as well that the thing that happened this morning is an attack from the enemy to hinder me from my prayer devotion this morning, as I will be praying as well for the kids prayer request that they've written down yesterday from Sunday School. But all in all, It is true what God tells us on Psalms 23. I want to take this opportunity as well to say my greatest appreciation and thankfulness to my husband. Though at times, we have some differences but He really takes good care of me and Niquolle. Very loving and caring. He has high fever but he still ran to give me water and to change my clothes. I thank God for everything.

I am not tired of my life as I am living it positively and with full of faith, but if you do, please do not forget to ask God to help you, He has wonderful plans for you and He will never let you down. 

A great day!

Friday, June 29, 2012

Things You Need to Know About Your VA (Virtual Assistant)



I am just browsing on the web when I read a blog about Filipino VA's (Virtual Assistants). What I am surprised is that the content of the blog was interesting because it tells how Filipinos work hard and what VA's are usually expecting. Let me just give you the details that Steph, a Project Manager of Virtual Staff Finder shares on their blog.

1. Filipinos are Shy - Most Filipinos tend to be she, reserved or conservative - especially when talking about monetary matters. Society sometimes views a person who is more concerned with monetary gains above anything else as "offensive", thus the term "mukhang pera", loose translation would be "gold digger".

This is the reason why having a clear understanding about your job offer and expected of them is essential role before they actually start working. Sometimes, if you do not ask if something is okay for them, they tend to just go along with it because they are too timid to talk about it. Having really clear, open communication and trust is essential to avoid conflict that may arise from the situation.

2. Filipinos do not like Confrontation - Filipinos are very pleasant and easy going. In the Filipino society confrontations are avoided as a Filipino value called "pakikisama"  read as "pa-kee-kee-sa-ma" is promoted. This means that instead of telling you directly about certain issues they are facing, they tend to beat around the bush, or give you subtle hints that they are not happy about something.

Sometimes, you have to probe and really ask specific questions to really be able to know that your Filipino Virtual Assistant is feeling or thinking about when it comes to a certain situation.

3. Filipinos are Sensitive - Filipinos are very emotional. Sometimes, even slight changes in your tone of voice can make them think you are upset, or mad about something. Take note of the words you use, or using caps in your emails - especially when certain issues arise, they are easily hurt and affected by it and often carry it with them for sometime. This can hinder productivity, obviously.

4. Filipinos are very Polite and Courteous - Filipinos are eager to please (especially their bosses!) and naturally polite. They usually have a term for a superior, or someone that they look up to, So don't be offended if they call you "sir" or "ma'am" all the time. This is their way of showing their respect.

5. Filipinos are very Traditional - Filipinos are very conventional overall. They celebrate holidays and traditional Filipino festivities - especially Catholics (the country predominantly follows his religion). Fiestas, Holy Week and other local holidays can be expected every year. Make sure you make an arrangement with them about yearly holidays and events.

Chris sometimes suggests that Professional Virtual Assistants follow the local holidays of their bosses. Not, the local holidays of the Philippines. For the most part this will be no problems with your VA's based in the Philippines - with very clear exceptions surrounding local Catholic holidays - these are usually very important to Professional Virtual Assistants here, and their families, and should be respected.

6. Filipinos are Motivated by Incentives and Bonuses, rather than Gifts - Gifts such as gadgets are always secondary to cash. Filipinos prefer cash because even basic things like bills and home repairs are not usually included in their monthly budget and only when they get extra financial stimulation can they afford to have these taken cared of.

7. Filipinos are Hard Working and Easy to Please - A little motivation and encouragement go a long way with your VA. Filipinos are very appreciative if you give positive feedback on their work. especially if they have been working particularly hard on finishing an important project for you.

8. Most Filipino VA's are the Breadwinner of the Family - Most Filipino workers have families to support. Whether it's their own, or putting other siblings through school, you will always find them looking after several dependents. Because of this, paying them fairly and on time is very important.

Most of the time, the money they will be receiving is already allocated to be spent. So, if you fail to deliver what you promise, this could lead to a lot of unexpected trouble and can even cause your VA to lose their trust in you - looking elsewhere for another, more understanding boss.

Be sure to always understand that Filipino VA's will be extremely loyal to you, as their boss. They simply want to be taken cared of and look after, so that they in return can take care of and look after their responsibilities.

9. Most Filipinos Live with an Extended Family - Knowing about a Filipino home setting is important, In terms in working with your Filipino VA. This can help you understand your VA even more, so be sure to show interest and ask questions.

Most Filipinos still live with their parents even if they have kids, or families of their own. So you can expect a household full of kids, cousins and other times aunts and uncles. This is normal in a Filipino home environment.

This is usually okay as long as it does not affect their productivity.

As we always point out to home based Virtual Assistants that we help find jobs through Virtual Staff Finder that they must be sure to not only have a proper workstation and dependable internet connection, but also that they have a designated place to work in the house. If not an entire room, then atleast a small area for their computer and sufficient desk space for them to be able to be organized and perform their tasks properly and professionally.

10. Filipinos are very Conscientious Workers - A very common traits of Filipinos is "utang na loob" or "debt of gratitude" .

When you give them something that they didn't expect, or more than what you promised them, they usually view this as a notion that they "owe you one". This can be a very good motivation for your home based VA. If they are performing more than expected, It wouldn't hurt to give them incentives for a job well done.

The traits above are observed in Filipinos in general and having a good grasp of their culture can help you understand them more and ultimately help the two of you (or more!) work better together. Source: http://www.outsourcetothephilippines.com/10-things-filipinovirtual-assistant/




Make Me the Strongest


"Lord, thank you for making me strong, but please make me the strongest"

Husband & Daughter w/ High Fever 
Household chores Work 
____________________
= SUPERMOM MODE!!!!

Saturday, May 26, 2012

The Chasing Liana Contest - Win an IPAD!

 

To join the contest, Please click the image above.


Contest Mechanics:

  1. This contest is FREE, NO purchase, or membership fee needed
  2. This contest is open to all people around the world with legal age of 18 and above.
  3. Upon registration, you are automatically earn 10 points.
  4.  This is a point standing contest which means that you need to earn more points to have higher chances of winning. NO raffle draw.
  5. You can also promote this contest using Facebook, Twitter and Email Invites to earn more points.  A personal generated link will be provided to you upon registration and that is the link you need to use to promote the contest online to gain more points.
  6. Ways to earn points:
    • Joining Contest – 10points
    • Signups you refer – 5points
    • Facebook Like* – 10points
    • Facebook Post* – 5points
    • Facebook App* – 5points
    • Twitter Tweet* – 5points
    • Click for referral link – 2points
      (eg. You tweet on twitter – you earn 5 points. Then 5 friends click on the contest link you earn additional 2 points x 5 friends = 10points. Total of 15 points)
  7. Promo runs from: May 21, 2012 8am PST – August 15, 2012 6pm PST.
  8. Minimum of 1,000 points required.
  9. You can view your point standing online http://chasingliana.com/win-an-ipad2-points-standing/
  10. Winner will receive an email in order for us to get the details on where to ship the iPad2.
  11. Max Points per Day: 1,000 pts.
*Registered email and FB or Twitter email account should be same.

Friday, May 25, 2012

Be Thankful for a Better Tomorrow





"I can't make it!" 
"He will probably deny his feelings for me." 
"My husband is a couch potato!"

Those are just few of the examples of complaining and pessimism that we hear from people throughout the globe. Some people are optimistic and some are pessimistic. However, when people complain on everything, it doesn't mean they are unhappy. It only means that bad things happened in their lives. If you will to monitor people from everywhere, they seem to complain a lot regardless of life's circumstances.

Now a days, people are always complaining and never seem to stop.  


 "A doubted person is a dangerous person. Never let anyone discourage you from what you want to do. Those people that discourage other people are the ones who discourage themselves and think the possible is impossible".


A statistic shows that an average people complains 15 to 30 times a day and it will not only risk our relationship with other people and the things that surrounds us but it will as well affect our health. When people complain, they become stress. Stress makes our immune system weak as it reduce immunity which may lead to the entrance of bacteria in our body. 

How we treat complaining is to think positively on the brighter side of things that happened. It may seem to be difficult specially when you got hurt, but as you see its light shine on the other side of the horizon, you will know what it means, the reason it happened and the beginning of something new which is much better than the past. 

Let me just give you an inspiring poem on how we should be thankful enough for all the things entrusted to us. 



I AM THANKFUL


I AM THANKFUL FOR THE WIFE
WHO SAYS IT'S HOTDOGS TONIGHT,
BECAUSE SHE IS HOME WITH ME
AND NOT OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE.

I AM THANKFUL FOR THE HUSBAND
WHO IS ON THE SOFA BEING A COUCH POTATO,
BECAUSE HE IS HOME WITH ME
AND NOT OUT AT THE BARS.

I AM THANKFUL FOR THE TEENAGER
WHO IS COMPLAINING ABOUT DOING THE DISHES
BECAUSE THAT MEANS SHE IS AT HOME
AND NOT ON THE STREETS.

I AM THANKFUL FOR THE TAXES
THAT I PAY
BECAUSE IT MEANS
THAT I AM EMPLOYED.

I AM THANKFUL FOR THE MESS
TO CLEAN AFTER A PARTY
BECAUSE IT MEANS
THAT I HAVE BEEN SURROUNDED BY FRIENDS.

I AM THANKFUL FOR THE CLOTHES
THAT FIT A LITTLE TOO SNUG
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I HAVE ENOUGH TO EAT.

I AM THANKFUL FOR MY SHADOW
THAT WATCHES ME WORK
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I AM OUT IN THE SUNSHINE.

I AM THANKFUL FOR A LAWN
THAT NEEDS MOWING,
WINDOWS THAT NEED CLEANING,
AND GUTTERS THAT NEED FIXING,
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I HAVE A HOME.

I AM THANKFUL FOR ALL THE COMPLAINING
I HEAR ABOUT THE GOVERNMENT
BECAUSE IT MEANS
THAT WE HAVE FREEDOM OF SPEECH.

I AM THANKFUL FOR THE PARKING SPOT
I FIND AT THE FAR END OF THE PARKING LOT
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I AM CAPABLE OF WALKING
AND THAT I HAVE BEEN
BLESSED WITH TRANSPORTATION.

I AM THANKFUL FOR MY HUGE HEATING BILL
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I AM WARM.

I AM THANKFUL FOR THE LADY
BEHIND ME IN CHURCH
THAT SINGS OFF KEY
BECAUSE IT MEANS
THAT I CAN HEAR.

I AM THANKFUL FOR THE PILE
OF LAUNDRY AND IRONING
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I HAVE CLOTHES TO WEAR.

I AM THANKFUL FOR WEARINESS AND ACHING MUSCLES
AT THE END OF THE DAY
BECAUSE IT MEANS
I HAVE BEEN CAPABLE OF WORKING HARD.

I AM THANKFUL FOR THE ALARM
THAT GOES OFF IN THE EARLY MORNING HOURS
BECAUSE IT MEANS
THAT I AM ALIVE.